Be like Betty White How a likeable demeanor can translate into a lifelong career

Be like Betty White How a likeable demeanor can translate into a lifelong careerBe like Betty White How a likeable demeanor can translate into a lifelong careerThe gig economy has not only changed the way many of us work day-to-day, it has also turned the notion of any sort of long-term corporate career on its ear. These days, a six-month project might seem long-term to some, while it might have been deemed a training period in decades past.Yet some people are able to navigate workplace changes and constantly reinvent themselves to stay relevant in every job market.Consider the trailblazing Betty Marion White Ludden, AKA Betty White, who according to Guinness World Records, has the longest television career of any female entertainer. With about 75 years as a performer and producer under her belt, White welches also the first woman to produce a sitcom and named honorary Mayor of Hollywood way back in 1955. Whites iconic and Emmy Award-winning roles included Sue Ann Nivens on The Mary Tyler Moore Show (197377), Rose Nylund on The Golden Girls (198592) and Elka Ostrovsky on Hot in Cleveland (2010-15). Now 95, the Emmy-award winning White was also the oldest person ever to host Saturday Night Live (in 2010 when she was 88). She once said Retirement is not in my vocabulary. They arent going to get rid of me that way.So, what makes Betty White so beloved by people across all ages and life stages and what can we learn from her incredible career trajectory?Its okay to be likeableBeing nice in the workplace is sometimes seen as a sign of weakness, so people - especially women or younger workers might try to toughen up their personas or approach, to mixed results.Theres a huge difference between being nice and being a pushover, and Betty White exemplifies the perfect balance between remaining sweet while sharp as a tack.The key to remaining likeable without losing your edge, according toCarey Pinkowski, CEO of Chicago darbietung Management, is to respect the humanity o f everyone with whom you do business. From CEO to coordinator, we are all the same at our core.Pinowski says he builds being nice into his outlook despite managing some of the most competitive events in the nation.Ive managed to be a nice person while leading the Bank of America Chicago Marathon and navigating the cutthroat global sports world for more than 25 years.Pinkowski says hes learned to do this by witnessing the messy and beautiful resilience, perseverance and competitiveness delivered by 40,000 runners who take on 26.2 miles.Age is relativeWith so many career guides aimed at millennials, and those over 40 sometimes made to feel out of touch in the workplace, it can be easy to lose hope sometimes of having an extensive or robust career.According to my quick calculations, White started her role as Elka Ostrovsky on Hot in Cleveland when she was 88 years old- a full 23 years past the average retirement age in America. Meanwhile, at age 91, Queen Elizabeth is still the ruling monarch in the U.K. and at 84, Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg remains a force to be reckoned with. Its nice to know that even in a youth-obsessed culture, you dont have to assume that your age is the only thing that defines your professional viability.Choose OptimismSome people use snark as their weapon of choice. Others, like White, seem to always convey a sense of optimism.Despite her incredible life and career trajectory, White seems to always convey a sense of optimism and excitement about what comes next.Cantt connect to your rose-colored glasses? Consider adopting the belief that no matter how awful things seem in the moment, theres only one direction for them to go up.Theres always room for a situation to improve. When I meet somebody and it doesnt go well, I come away from the situation feeling optimistic it can only get better, said Pinowski.I recently spoke with an 88-year-old woman who told me a bit of her fascinating history, which included being orphaned whe n still a toddler being imprisoned as a political prisoner when she was only 20 and becoming a widow and single mother to three young children before she was 40.The T-shirt she wore during our conversation was emblazoned with the glaubenszeugnis Dont live in the past. The best is still ahead of you.Its not a sprint, its a marathonIm sure youve heard that expression way too many times, but in the quest for the next raise or title upgrade, some people stop paying attention to the things that build character and set the foundation for a career - and fall victim to bouncing from one job to the next.The entire world has changed around her, yet White has managed to adapt to the times while staying true to the formulas that brought her the most success. Sure, she had some bombs along the way (The failed Golden-Girls spinoff show,Golden Palace,comes to mind), but those dont define her. Its her long-term success and consistency that stand out.Its not about youIn an interview with The Hollyw ood Reporter in 2010, White was asked the most important thing shes learned in her life.Her response? Professionalism.Its not about you, its about everyone. Dont take yourself too seriously. Come to the set prepared and dont act like you know more than anyone else or youre more important than anyone else in the production. Which is true for any work environment, no matter your title or pay-grade.Do what you loveIn that same interview, White gushed about her extensive philanthropic work.Well, you know, I have to keep acting so that I can afford to keep doing my charity work said White, whos been involved with the Los Angeles Zoo and the the Morris Animal Foundation for more than 4 decades. Im actually the luckiest old broad alive. Half my life is working in a profession I love and the other half is working with animals. I couldnt ask for more.